Help Teenagers Survive the Difficult Years

The teen years are some of the most difficult years in growth process. We’ve all been there, but as society changes, so do the hurdles faced in the quest to become an adult. So, how does a parent deal with an obstinate teenager and still keep his or her sanity?

Teenagers are in the difficult phase between childhood and adulthood. They are striving to live as adults, but they often lack the maturity necessary to make substantive decisions on their own. It is a well-known fact that teenagers think they know it all. This isn’t true for all teenagers, but the vast majority won’t listen to the advice of their parents or family. They rely on the advice of friends and others in their peer group who also lack experience and maturity. As a result, teenagers learn the most vital and often the most difficult lessons by trial and error. In other words, they must learn the hard way.

Although a teenager is old enough to take care of their most basic needs, they still require guidance. They need rules to follow in order to stay in control, safe, and sometimes out of trouble.

It’s important to know where your teenager is going, even if he or she appears to be responsible. As a parent you have a right to know where your teen is spending his or her time. Convey to your teen that everyone, even adults, should let someone know where they are going and when they plan on returning. This is important for safety reasons, and it’s common courtesy.

Even if your teenager is 18 years of age, set a curfew. Making an acceptable deadline for returning home shows you care where your teen is as well as what they are doing. Make it clear what the consequences will be if he or she is late, and what is most important, stick to your guns. If you set a curfew and don’t follow through, your teen will realize he or she can get away with breaking the rules.

iftaar’ Party by Bajrang bali seva trust

With the slogan “Jaat dharm sab jood ker banunga nishdha wan,Lae shapath bajrang bali karoonga ga achcha kaam.” Shrai Bajrang bali seva trust krishna township , vasai west organised a Iftaar  party in the month of Ramzan for Muslim brothers on 27th sept 2008.

President of this trust is Shri D.K singh.

Good Start By Shree Bajrang Bali seva trust Vasai

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Value Relationships!!!!

A small touching story mainly for professionals…

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON:   ‘Daddy, may I ask you a question?’

DAD:   ‘Yeah sure, what is it?’ replied the man.

SON:   ‘Daddy, how much do you make an hour?’

DAD:   ‘That’s none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?’ the man said angrily.

SON:    ‘I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?’

DAD:    ‘If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour.’

SON:     ‘Oh,’ the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON:   ‘Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?’

The father was furious, ‘If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about
why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior.’

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy’s questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn’t ask for money very often. The man went to
the door of the little boy’s room and opened the door.
‘Are you asleep, son?’ He asked.

‘No daddy, I’m awake,’ replied the boy.

‘I’ve been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier’ said the man.

‘It’s been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here’s the Rs.50 you asked for.’

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. ‘Oh, thank you daddy!’ He yelled.

Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.
The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up
at his father.

‘Why do you want more money if you already have some?’ the father grumbled.

‘Because I didn’t have enough, but now I do,’ the little boy replied.

‘Daddy, I have Rs. 100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?

Please come home early tomorrow I would like to have dinner with you’

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It’s just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.

Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.

But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.  And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more
into work than to our family.

Value Relationships!!!!

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Due dates of filing efile taxes return is midnight of April 15th but you can file e-file a new tax return till October 15th( penalties will apply)

Tax returns are forms filed by the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) or the state tax collection agency. The standard US individual tax return is form 1040. There are several variations of this form such as the Federal income tax forms 1040EZ and 1040A with different supplement forms. American people who earn more than assigned a number of money are required to file tax returns by law. Filing requirements vary according to a taxpayer’s filing status.

In our Next blog I will provide some guideline for filing online returns in India.